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    Lavender buds for throwing at the newlyweds when walking down the aisleWhere did the tradition of throwing rice come from and why do we do it?

    Throwing rice was actually one of the fertility rituals at weddings from ancient times. The rice seeds where symbols of "New Life" because they could germinate. This custom is believed to come from ancient Rome where both rice and later grain, dates, nuts and coins apparently were thrown at the newly weds to pave the way for fertility, happiness and good force. Nowadays rice (you can get bird safe rice) is no longer thrown as a symbol of fertility but simply to wish the couple a prosperous future and is a real festive element at the wedding ceremony. Bird safe rice is not the only option though, take a look at the suggestions below and get inspired to personalize your wedding ceremony.

    Suggestion to what to throw at the wedding ceremony:

    Designer rice/bird safe rice – You can still go with the old tradition and use rice for your wedding ceremony. Just use the bird safe stuff that is biodegradable. Ask your church if it’s okay first though. Bird safe rice can be heart shaped and bought at craft stores.

    Bird seed – Low cost, quite commonly used and is definitely on the top five for a lot of brides. There is no clean up here as the birds will do it for you but be aware that it may be a bit messy on the hands. Remember that it is going to be thrown at you avoid the seed mix with very large seeds in.

    Grass seed – Fantastic if you are on a lawn as there is no mess to clean up. Wedding venues or churches are not likely to approve this one.

    Rose petals – Low cost if as you can get the leftover from flower markets. I have heard of brides who have bought rose petals for 500 guests for around $15. Amazing! You can use flower petals of whatever flowers are in your wedding bouquet.

    Cherry blossoms – Gorgeous for weddings. The guests can throw the whole flowers or just the petals. A nice twist on this idea is to get small branches with the cherry blossoms on and use them as decoration at the wedding ceremony. After the eremony the guests then get one (little) branch each which they simply shake over the newly weds so the small pink petals drizzles off.

    Dried lavender – Lovely idea. The lavender is more or less the same size as the rice, wont cause any harm to environment and as they are thrown and everybody steps on them they will smell beautifully!

    Heather - also a gorgeous flower to use and won’t be too expensive. Heather exists in variations of purple, pink and also white. Beautiful! If you like the idea of using heather flowers then you should see my suggestion on how to make your own flower wreath using heather here.

    Bubbles – Are very popular because many churches won’t allow most of the other things that are thrown at weddings. If you would like bubbles for your wedding ceremony I suggest you buy a sample and test it first. Some bubbles can leave ugly stains on clothes as they land and dry out. Also many photographers strongly advise against bubbles due to their expensive camera gear. The bubbles can also leave marks on the camera lens which will then be visible on your wedding photos.

    Large size party poppers – They will pop confetti and streamers into the air. Decorate them with personalized stickers or tags and arrange in baskets or bowls for guests to take one each.

    DIY wedding wands – Make wedding wands out of pieces of dowel with pieces of ribbon attached to the top! Not only does it look beautiful but wedding wands are also practical as there is nothing to clean up afterwards. They look amazing on photos too and make a lovely little keepsafe for wedding guests!

    Wild flower seed – Are fantastic if you have your wedding on your own (or your family’s) property and you don’t mind gorgeous little flowers potentially appearing seasons later. I think it would be amazing to see all the little flowers the following summer or spring. It would be a romantic reminder of the wedding day year after year! Churches or other wedding ceremony venues are unlikely to allow this though.
    If you like this idea and are allowed to use flower seeds then consider to use flower seeds for your wedding favors as well.

    Rice paper – Is thin, makes great confetti and is eco friendly.

    “Sprinkles” - I have heard of “sprinkles” being used as well. It great in size, price and colors but if it’s a rainy day I would be a little careful as the colors from the “sprinkles” potentially can stain clothes. One thing is for sure – its great for the children who will probably at more than they throw. If you use “sprinkles” for your wedding ceremony then consider to also use “sprinkles” on your cake or cupcakes later to make a theme.

    Autumn leaves – Rustic and wonderful for a fall wedding. Spend a little time collecting leaves and drying them before the wedding. Arrange them in bushel baskets with a little sign telling guests to take a handful each. It’s original & creative.

    Pumpkin seeds – Also wonderful for an Autumn wedding theme. Arrange in individual bags, paper cones or on bowls for guests to take a handful each.

    $1 bills – It’s an African tradition

    Small coins – It’s apparently an Eastern European tradition.

    Eco confetti – available in different colors and is eco friendly.

    Streamers – get all your guests streamers. They are super festive, very easy to clean up and they come in all colors.

    Jordan almonds – I have heard of jordan almonds thrown at an Italian wedding.

    Miniature beach balls – Super for a beach wedding theme. You can get mini beach balls in all colors on the internet. It looks amazing and the guests will have a laugh throwing them around. I have heard it’s a lot of fun and great entertainment too!

    Alternatives to throwing

    Sparklers – Breathtaking for an evening wedding. It looks amazing and is quite inexpensive as well. Tie two sparklers together with a piece of ribbon and place in a basket or similar. Make sure your guests have a possibility to light them – perhaps with small personalized match boxes. If there are kids consider giving them little sparkle lights.

    Japanese floating lanterns - Get your guests a floating Japanese lantern each. I love this idea if you are marrying around a pool or pond or similar in the evening but I am not a fan of adding more stuff to the oceans. This is also why I am not adding “Balloon Releases” to this list. I don’t like the thought of them ending up in nature somewhere when they finally pop & drop.

    Fireworks – Superb for an evening wedding but also a bit noisy.

    Kazoos – Give your guests one each to blow after the ceremony – Noisy but very festive!

    Bells - Give your guests a bell each and ring in your new life.

    No matter what you choose for your wedding ceremony it will surely be amazing and you can easily add your own personal DIY touch to it all. Make small bags of fabric or paper or arrange in large baskets or glass fish balls and add tags, ribbon or signs.
    I hope you feel inspired.

    Small tip: If you have decided on something which could potentially make your guests hands a bit dirty (i.e. birdseed, flowers petals etc.) it would be a really lovely gesture to arrange individually wrapped small wet tissues for your guests so they can wipe their hands afterwards. In particular if you go directly to the reception after the wedding ceremony.

    Mette Morgan

    Mette Morgan

    Comments

    Jane24182012-04-24 15:20#8
    [quote name="Rachel Renee"][quote name="Jane2418"]

    I still cannot help but be concerned that trained doves especially would be more succeptable to be preyed upon by falcons, cats, & other predators that they were not familar with.
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    Rachel Renee2012-04-19 21:55#7
    Quoting Jane2418:
    PLEASE! do not use live doves or butterflies. "White doves, for example, are specifically bred for release and used by thoughtless event planners. Because doves are flock animals, they have very little chance of surviving on their own when they are released at events. Sending white doves into the air after having kept them confined for their entire lives is tantamount to abandoning a household companion animal in the woods 10 miles from home."


    This may be true of doves in general, but most people who offer this service have trained the doves. My next door neighbor has about 20 doves that he has trained. He can take them anywhere up to 150 miles away, release them, and they fly straight back to his home. So the same doves are released each time. They are also very well-cared for!
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    Jane24182012-02-24 06:50#6
    PLEASE! do not use live doves or butterflies. "White doves, for example, are specifically bred for release and used by thoughtless event planners. Because doves are flock animals, they have very little chance of surviving on their own when they are released at events. Sending white doves into the air after having kept them confined for their entire lives is tantamount to abandoning a household companion animal in the woods 10 miles from home."
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    Mand2012-01-11 19:41#5
    Quoting Lauran Goad:
    My sister got married this past May and I was in charge of this task. I came up with fake Biodegradable SNOW!! Everyone loved this!!


    this is a great idea, me and my husband will be renewing our vows on our 10 yr anniversary, we live in Louisiana and it very rarely snows I just this this would be and awesome idea.
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    Mette Morgan2011-10-12 02:11#4
    Quoting Theresa:
    Just to set the record straight, dollar bills are thrown at the couple during the reception while dancing.

    Hi Theresa, Thank you so much for your input. Which of the traditions are you commenting on? The $1 bills (the African tradition) or the small coins (the Eastern European tradition)? The information above is all based on what we have been told here at DIYwedding and internet research. I warmly welcome corrections or comments on the subject. It's all very interesting I think.
    Thanks heaps!
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    Theresa2011-10-12 02:00#3
    Just to set the record straight, dollar bills are thrown at the couple during the reception while dancing.
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    Court2011-08-27 13:53#2
    Historical accuracy note: In ancient Rome it was also a custom to shower a new slave with rice when they entered their new master's house. The same ritual was performed when a wife was brought into the house. I find the wife/slave link a bit disturbing. Needless to say I will not be having anything thrown on me at my wedding.
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    Lauran Goad2011-06-06 02:45#1
    My sister got married this past May and I was in charge of this task. I came up with fake Biodegradable SNOW!! Everyone loved this!!
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